AbundantMama is a blog for you if you recognize you have lived with emotional abuse and are either beginning or ready to begin, the healing process.
It wasn’t until I was in my early 40’s and looking at the state of the unhealthy relationship I was in at the time, did it even occur to me that I had been in an emotionally abusive situation. This realization spurred on many changes in my life and the lives of my children. I wish I had known then what I know now. I certainly would have done things differently. However, that is how we grow, by trying things and, if they don’t work, trying something else.
Once I started to see more clearly, layers and layers of emotion started to unravel. I should backtrack a bit here. I was already on the path towards enlightenment. Aren’t we all? I had already come to an understanding, on some level, that we create our reality. All of it. We create the good, we create the less desirable. We create the happy parts, we create the shadow parts. But we as powerful co-creators of the universe, have a hand in all we experience.
That meant, the situation I found myself in, as well as the previous tumultuous marriage I experienced, were all my own doing. This isn’t to say I am to blame for the situations, but I must accept personal responsibility. I attracted the men I did into my life in order to experience the powerlessness and victimization of emotional abuse. It enabled my growth.
I believe and deeply understand, we are all inherently beautiful and pure.
Couldn’t I have grown without the emotional abuse? Better not to ponder on that too much, because, you see, it is what it is.
I chose to heal from emotional abuse through understanding Universal Law, specifically the Law of Attraction.
Life isn’t as serious as we make it all out to be. I don’t want to finish my time on Earth only to say, “Gee, I wish I took it all less seriously. I wish I’d had more fun.”, because we can start to have fun and be less serious when we understand we are responsible for our realities. Totally responsible. Totally responsible for our response to the situations we find ourselves.
My life story may be very much like yours, or very different. Emotional abuse does not affect just one type of person. The common factor we all share is the desire to break free of previous binding perceptions in order to live a life of your own deliberate creation.
I am here to help you do that. I am here to hold my hand out for you, to lift you up to a higher ground. Nothing is more important to me.
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Stay connected. Help yourself and help others. And never surrender. The journey is so worth the effort.
Warmest Regards,
Sue
